The High-Stakes Retirement Exam

Retiring is a lot like those all‑important school tests — the kind where your score opens (or closes) doors to future opportunities. In many cases, you only get one chance to get things right, and the consequences can last for years.

The exam begins by asking how you plan to fund your retirement. Saying goodbye to a steady paycheck and replacing it with multiple income streams can feel unsettling. Do you take Social Security now, or wait until “full retirement age” or beyond? How long will your 401(k) last at a given burn rate? Are you hoping to leave a financial legacy for your kids?

Then it moves on to Medicare — with its alphabet soup of Parts A, B, C, and D. I’m convinced it’s only a matter of time before there’s a Medicare section for every letter. My personal favorite is the two‑year income lookback that determines your Part B premium. You may be earning less once retired, but you still have to prove that and challenge the higher rate… or keep paying based on what you earned two years before retirement. Only a politician could design something so “elegant.”

Next, the exam asks where you plan to live — and whether your current home is truly your “forever home.”

Finally, it asks what you’ll do with the extra time now on your hands, and how you’ll maintain purpose and meaning in this new chapter. I’ll have more to say on that soon.

So… how did you score? What do you find most challenging when you think about retirement. I’d enjoy hearing from you.

It Happened

Last Wednesday, I went into work as an SVP and left around 5:30 as a retiree. After a 40‑year career with Bank of America, I officially stepped into the next chapter.

I was the very last person to leave that day. I sent one final email to my manager thanking him for his support, then signed off for the last time. After that, I took a slow walk through the office, just reminiscing.

I’m sure this will evolve, but I still find myself thinking about all the in‑flight projects and wondering how everyone is doing. I don’t necessarily miss the daily pressure of work, but I do miss the relationships — the people who made the work meaningful.

Now it’s time to look forward and make this next chapter even stronger than the one I just closed. I’m excited to share the journey and to reconnect with former teammates here on LinkedIn.

I’m grateful for all of you.

19 Ways to Lead

True leaders lead in every season, not just the good ones. As the world is currently in crisis and the only news is bad news, your leadership is needed now more than ever! Here are 19 attributes of leadership that you can draw from during this time of great trouble.

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Five Essential Tips to Nail A First Impression

The human brain processes non-verbal information much faster than verbal communication. Within a couple seconds of meeting someone for the first time, the brain has already assessed a long list of factors about that person (for better or for worse) such as gender, age range, physical attributes, general hygiene,  how the individual is dressed, and the level of confidence they display through body posture and facial expression. This information then immediately creates a filter through which the brain will initially process verbal communication coming from that person. You truly only have one chance to make a great first impression!

Now that we are aware of how the brain formulates first impressions, it’s time we up our game in this critical area of communication. So, let’s take a look at some tangible action steps we can take to nail that first impression whether we are speaking in front of a crowd, being introduced to an executive from work, or perhaps meeting that special someone for the first time.

The Captivating Wedding

It happened years ago in Brazil, where we lived at the time, in a little church my dad was overseeing. The modest chapel stood on a hillside overlooking the red clay-tiled roofs of the houses below that spilled out across the valley. On this particular day, he was presiding over a wedding and so we were all invited to attend what turned out to be an amazing ceremony and a valuable life lesson. Looking back now, it was without a doubt the humblest wedding I ever attended, but at the same time one of the most captivating.

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The Best Time Is Now

A new year is upon us! Will this new year just wash over you with whatever it happens to bring, or will your intentional decisions be the force that changes the outcome of the year? What key decisions do you need to make in your life this coming year? Better yet, what is the one significant step you need to take in your life right now to make the new year memorable? If you know the answer, is it something big enough and bold enough that it significantly challenges you? Have you been waiting for the right time, the right opportunity, or even someone else to step in and take action for you on your big idea? I am here to challenge both you and me to make this the year where we take significant intentional action in our lives.

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Increase Your Influence

Are you a proactive influencer, or are you more likely to react to your surroundings?

Have you ever used binoculars or a telescope to see something clearly that was actually out of the reach of your naked eye? In order to use these instruments correctly, you have to sometimes adjust the focus depending on how far away the object is you are trying to observe. Becoming an influencer requires us to focus in on the things we can control, and consciously push the things we cannot control out to our peripheral.

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Maintain A Healthy Brain

For some time now I have been curious about what I can do to maintain and even improve my brain health as I grow older. Like the brain itself, this is a complicated topic. There is no single factor that makes or breaks your brain health, but rather a combination of factors. The good news is, there are some key things that we control that can make a measured difference in our brain’s health as we age. So, let’s dive in and see what they are!

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